IT HURTS! (repost)

i'm sorry, hindi ko kinayang hindi i-post. haha. read this from ruth's blog. loka talaga yung sis kong yun, after kong umiyak-iyak because of Susan Boyle, tawa naman ako to the max sa post na ito. at syempre, magcocomment din ako. :D
(yung nasa loob ng parentheses na comments ay galing kay ruth, yung comment ko, yung after ng '>>'. :D)

*letting go of a person you’ve just learned to love (ayun o!haaaaayyyyy…)
>>no comment. haha. :D

*reminiscing the good times you shared together (every moment, we shared together, is even better than the moments before…by westlife!)
>>and i miss you more whenever i think about you.. hehe.. moment of truth, fm static

*shielding your heart to love somebody (pwede ba yun? Kunsabagay…)
>>umm, pwede.

*trying to hide what you really feel (pambihira naman o! ako ba tinutukoy mo?)
>>haha. ikaw nga sis. :D

*trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes (O, hindi!!..sniff…)
>>ay hindi ako nakakarelate. i don't hide the tears e. i don't need to hide. hindi na kasi ako umiiyak. haha. (didn't i just say na naiyak ako kay Susan Boyle? hehe.)

*loving a person too much (naku, lahat ng sobra, masama…)
>>oh yeah. too much of something is bad enough. :)

*giving up someone you never thought of giving up (ayun o! may ganun talaga teh?)
>>oo. may ganun. :D

*having the right love at the wrong time (may ganun ba?malamang hindi yun right love)
>>parang somewhere down the road lang.. we had the right love at the wrong time.. :D

*taking the risk to fall in love again (masakit ba yun?hindi ako makarelate..echos!)
>>if i should love again, if i find someone new.. haha.. after Susan Boyle, Barry Manilow fever naman. :D

*hiding your relationship from someone else (ay, ang sakit nga naman yun…why hide it?)
>>oo nga, why hide it? kasi it's complicated? hehe.

*controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend (my goodness!namemersonal ka ba?ha?)
>>haha. pinepersonal ka ba sis? iniisip ko pa kung nakaka-relate ako. hehe. pero oo, sometimes, hindi ko masabi yung gusto kong sabihin o gawin yung gusto kong gawin kasi ayokong makasakit. at ang kapalit nun, ako ang nasasaktan. naninikip dibdib ko e. lalo na pag galit na ako tapos ayokong makapagsalita ng masakit kaya pipigilin ko yung galit ko. wala lang. ang haba ng comment ko. hehe.

*thinking of him/her every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he/she never even thinks a single thought of you (ouch..oo nga naman…tsk tsk!)
>>isa lang solusyon diyan, think happy thoughts. :D kaso may follow-up question, pano kung siya yung happy thought? hmm. e di think of happier thoughts. haha. pero kasi naman OA naman yung thinking of him/her every waking moment. kamusta naman yun? pwede naman siguro every after one hour. hehe. i told a joke. :D

*letting go, because every time you see the person, you only fall deeper (namumuro ka na ha…)
>>haha. sino bang gumawa nito? sunugin! hehe.

*holding back only to find out when it’s too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn’t let the feelings out (ang haba naman…nosebleed!sniff!)
>>onga, ano daw? haha. oo gets ko. hindi nga lang ako maka-relate. :p

*falling in love with someone you didn’t mean to fall in love with (awwww….)
>>masakit ba yun? isn't that a wonderful thing? diba pleasant surprise yun? that's what you call 'magic' or 'destiny'. hehe. yun nga lang, ibang usapan na yun kung sa may asawa ka na-inlove. hehe.

*finding the perfect boy/girl…with only one problem…he/she doesn’t love you the way you want him/her to (hmmm…familiar story ha..)
>>ay eto imposibleng mangyari. kasi walang perfect na tao. :p

*helping the one you love court your friend (kumusta, palagi na lang ganito!)
>>haha. hindi pa naman 'to nangyayari. and i wish hindi mangyari. hehe.

*seeing the one you love crying for someone else (ehem..no comment…)
>>naman. buti na lang hindi girl yung "someone else" na yun. lalaki pala. haha. joke lang. :D

*the waiting also hurts like hell (hmmm, not really, coz patience is a virtue…true love is worth waiting for!)
>>Amen to that Sis!

*having to hear…”I’ve met someone.”(ayus lang..na-meet lang naman nya eh!ha ha!)
>>haha. sino kayang nakaka-relate?! ehem. heelz? nababasa mo ba 'to? haha. "i've met someone. tapos yun, naging kame." wahaha. peace heelz! :D

*agreeing to his/her wish to “just be friends” (naku, may mas masakit pa dyan, I tell you…)
>>to this i can't relate. really. :D never pa akong sinabihan nun e. "i hope we can be even just friends" or "let's be friends" lang mga linyang narinig ko. :D

*asking his/her freedom back because “he’d/she’d be happier with him/her” (anu raw?he he!)
>>he always has his freedom. :D

*asking you to “forget that everything happened” and be “normal” friends again (hindi ako makarelate…sorry)
>>ako rin, can't relate. ay teka, nangyari na pala 'to. parang. hehe. tama ba tweet2? i remember si dan at si vincci pa yung kumausap sa akin tungkol dun. hehe. kasi naman, hindi dapat tumatalo ng kaibigan. :D

*hearing that you’re treated as a little bro/sis (eto na nga ba sinasabi ko eh…bato bato sa langit, ang tamaan, iyak na lang..he he!)
>>hay nako. kaya nga neutral ako sa concept ng pagiging "bunso" ko e. sometimes i love being called that way, pero at times, nakakalungkot na ewan din. or siguro may trauma pa rin ako sa word na yun. kasi naman, ikaw ba naman sabihan ng: "................................., bunso!" secret na lang kung ano yun. haha.

*sharing his/her future plans for the girl/boy with you (ang sakit nga naman no’n pare!)
>>most of my friends have done this, pero di naman ako na-hurt. happy pa nga ako for them e. pero yun nga lang, there's a part of me that wishes na sana may magsabi rin ng future plans niya for me. halimbawa, singing career, o di kaya opportunity to travel abroad, tsaka house and lot sa loyola grand villas. haha. ambisyosa. :D

*you stopped being friends because his gf/bf asked him/her to (ang saklap naman nun!friends na nga lang eh…)
>>waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! nakaka-relate ako! huhu. soul sis, i miss you na talaga! hay. pero di naman talaga natapos ang friendship naten diba? syempre, takas-takas pa rin. haha. hay nako. bakit ba kasi may mga over-selosong boypren (at sige na nga, girlpren na rin. hehe.)?

*being denied in front of people (I hope this won’t happen to me…)
>>denied? nakaka-relate din ata ako. haha. diba soul sis?

*telling you lies where he’d/she’d been when actually, he/she was with a new friend or an old flame (ang bad naman nun…)
>>ehem. at isa pang ehem. ayoko ng alalahanin. haha. :D

*he/she told you he’d/she’d be leaving you to return to his/her ex (the one she left for you) (anu ba yan, paiba iba ng isip…labo mo teh!)
>>ay parang hindi 'to mangyayari. AT HINDI 'TO MANGYAYARI. kasi yung next, will be my last. so wala na siyang babalikan pa. hehe. that's the spirit. :D never stop hoping and praying aiza. :D

*breaking someone’s heart (hala…parang guilty ako dito?)
>>this is so true. ganun daw talaga pag mabait e. hehe. pero seryoso, kung may konsensiya kang tao, masasaktan ka rin pag nakasakit ka ng iba.

*fighting for that one thing that would make you happy that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you his/her commitment unless he/she fixes himself/herself…then, you are left hanging for the moment..then he/she says, time will tell…ang labo lang nya…but you still decided to hope in him/her and trust him/her (hay, buhay…)
>>ang haba, nakakatamad basahin. haha. basta eto na lang, i don't wanna fight no more, i forgot what we were fighting for.. hehe.. westlife fever naman. :D

*pretending you’re okay when inside you’re dying (namumuro ka na ha!kanina ka pa!)
>>haha. easy lang sis. :D kantahin na lang natin yung kanta ng MCR.. i'm not okay.. hehe. ay eto better song, from McFly, aahhhhhhhhhhhh.. i'll be okay. :D

*pretending to be strong. and recognizing your weakness (oh, yes!i’m a great pretender!har har!)
>>haha. why must we all conceal, what we think, how we feel.. reflection, christina a. :D wag na kasi mag-pretend, just be strong, really strong. :) ay pero may naalala rin pala ako. sabi ni Father Babes dati sa homily niya, "sometimes, you have to fake it to make it real", so hindi rin talaga masama mag-pretend paminsan-minsan. :D

*lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have (ha ha!parang westlife days lang ah!Mark feehily?)
>>haha. oo nga. ako naman kay shane. at syempre umiyak pa talaga ako nung nalaman kong nag-asawa na siya. haha. ganun ako kabaliw sa westlife dati. :D

*being with someone you can’t actually love (ok!)
>>oo nga. ok na lang din. wala akong masabi. can't relate e.

*pretending you don’t love a person whom you actually love (tsk!tsk!no comment)
>>ay naalala ko tuloy yung My Bestfriend's Girlfriend na movie. napanood ko lang sa GMA. sabi ni Maria dun, "akala ko dati mahirap magpanggap na mahal kita. mas mahirap palang magpanggap na hindi kita mahal".haha. o diba, kabisado ko pa. :D in fairness to me, paidlip-idlip pa ako habang nanonood nun. :D

*being in love (korek!pero pag kay Lord, everything’s alright!)
>>yes, love hurts. but sometimes it's a good hurt. :D (love hurts, incubus)

*letting go even if you really don’t want to…having no right to say you’re hurting because it was your decision (may tama ka!hu hu!)
>>oo na. hehe.

*seeing the person you love hurt because of you and not being able to help that person (hmmm..pwede…)
>>umm, oo. sobrang sakit talaga. last year, nung nagkasakit ako, mas nahirapan at nasaktan akong makitang nahihirapan sina mama. kaso wala akong magawa. :( pero buti na lang tapos yung period na yun. healthy na ako. praise God. :)

*having the courage to say ‘i love you’ to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will never be the same again when he/she doesn’t treat you with the same closeness as before (naku, korek..kaya ako, discreet pa rin…para hindi ganun kasakit..tama di ba?)
>>eto naman parang maniwala ka sana ng parokya.. "ngayon ako'y nagsisisi kung bakit ako nag "i love you"!!! kasi di na tayo tulad ng dati" :D

*having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable (ang sakit naman nun…)
*waaaaaaaaaah. taylor swift naman. teardrops on my guitar. the only one who's got enough of me to break my heart. tsaka yung konstantine ng something corporate. they'll never hurt you like i do.

*admitting that you love someone despite his/her imperfections (well, that’s acceptance..that’s normal naman)
>>oo nga, normal 'to. love is a decision nga diba? and when you love, you love the person, kasama na dun yung imperfections niya.

*finding out that the more you try to hate him/her, the more you end up loving him/her, perhaps even more than before (wow!the more you hate the more you love ba ang banat teh?)
>>ayun o! can't stop the hurt inside when love and hate collide. :D

*realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break up (I can’t relate)
>>ay sorry na lang, hindi rin ako nakaka-relate. hindi ako ang may kasalanan. haha. hugas-kamay. :D pero totoo lang naman kasi.

*the thought that this guy/girl, used to really love you and you loved him/her as well kaso you didn’t give enough…he/she gave up on you na (ay, kasalanan mo yun teh!)
>>e ang kaso you already did your best, but your best wasn't good enough. haha. just once? james ingram? hehe. kantahan na lang kasi tayo. :D

*sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else (it’s stupidity!)
>>korek. kung sa'yo, sa'yo. kung kanya, kanya. :D

*making a promise and realizing that when the time has come for that promise to be delivered…the commitment is no longer there (how I wish, hindi mangyari sa akin ito..pero parang papunta na dun..)
>>ano raw? hehe. no comment na lang. baka mali intindi ko e. :D

*the hardest thing about love—believing it exists (it depends..)
>>ay hindi naman. God exists. and God is love. so kahit wala ka pang "lovelife", you still have God. and that is more than enough. kasi only He can love us unconditionally and eternally. :)

*after you’ve been hurt….learning to forgive….learning to trust and love again (ayus lang..that’s life eh!)
>>tanungin niyo ako ng comment ko. hehe.

*seeing your partner battle with death! (my goodness!knocks on wood!)
>>that's something i don't think i can bear.

*but the hardest thing really is learning to love yourself ~ we always forget to do this (korek…now I’m thinking of a particular person…)
>>learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all. :)

"At ito naman ang dagdag ko…

***It really hurts pag naging panakip-butas ka lang!!!! yung tipong ginamit ka lang kasi hindi pa sya makapag-move on… palipas oras, in other words…and suddenly that person will dump you just like that! (tamaan na ang dapat tamaan!—bitter?ha ha!)

But despite these things, cheer up! Because we’re counting on God!

“The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18"

si ruth pa rin nagsulat nung quoted part. nililinaw ko lang. hehe. eto yung sken, "what good is love when it keeps on hurting me.. i guess love would be nice for someone else's life.." hehe. joke lang. bigla ko lang naalala yung song ni Stacie Orrico (nasan na nga ba siya?) na "I'm Not Missing You" :D

seriously, pain is good. it keeps us alive. so don't be afraid of getting hurt. gaya nga ng lagi kong sinasabi, "what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger". kaya be thankful for the heartbreaks and heartaches. part yan ng process of growing up and becoming a better you. just make sure you learn your lessons.

eto yung naisip kong bagay na ending sa post na ito. naalala ko lang yung song: you've made me stronger by breaking my heart, you ended my life and made a better one start. you've taught me everything from falling in love to letting go of a lie. yes you've made me stronger, baby, by saying goodbye". :D

pagpasensiyahan niyo na kung puro kanta. e kasi naman singer nga ako diba? hehe. anong petsa na pala. masyado naman akong naaliw sa post na ito. westlife sis ruthie, thanks for this. :) stress-reliever. :D

o siya, tulog na ako. good morning people. :) yan ang epekto ng naiiwang mag-isa sa bahay nang matagal. walang ibang kausap, walang kasama. kung ano-ano tuloy nababasa ko. hehe. pero good thing din naman. kahit pano nakapag-reflect ako. seryoso yun. :)